Fifty Shades Of Grey

'I´m fifty shades of fucked up'

I´m gonna be honest here, it was quite a while ago that I read Fifty, but it left me with a nice feeling, I read the first in German and was so thrilled by the end I just had to get me the 2 following books in English because they weren´t translated yet.

There were already thousands of post about this Film and the Books, claiming the story were a positive pic about a abusive relationship, how awful it were and a shame for the real BDSM Scene ...

Seriously I don´t get it, because it´s a fun Story, Mr. Grey is pretty strange for sure, unable to connect himself to another humans, but that is not uncommon in books, he is not written to be a role model for anything a Scene or a husband to be. And we already had worse, once back in the day we had something like 9 1/2 Weeks. Also a man without the ability to accept love and intimity. And there was a mere rape scene on the kitchen table, and he was abusing her trust. Success following with the Wild Orchic. Similar even with Orgies. And we also had a pretty famous one quite some years ago called The Story of O. were the woman out of love to her guy - became a slave and a mere hole for the pleasure of a lot of different man. When, where and how those men wanted her. And let´s not forget Sodom and Gomora by the great Marquis de Sade or his Justine where the girl even has to die at the end when she is totally broken and a mere puppet. That is quite some depressive literature just because is good written - doesn´t mean it´s good work. 

And as for the Scene - it was never meant to be a guide line for BDSM - he is not in it, he doesn´t visit these places and he certainly is not interested to play by their rules. But what it does is it peaks peoples interest in it. And that is a good thing if you like it or not. 

As for me, I liked the Film, I liked the Actors and the Storyline and I sure as hell will watch the sequels.